
What we’re about
Hi everyone! 👋 Welcome! I'm so glad you're here.
The mission is to create a cozy, welcoming space for introverted women in their 30s and 40s to connect over a shared love of reading, without feeling overwhelmed or "on" all the time. We will focus on smaller groups, thoughtful conversation, and a relaxed, no-pressure environment.
Format:
- Meet Twice a Month:
- First Meetup: Fiction Book Discussion
- Second Meetup: Non-fiction Book Discussion
- November and December are usually pretty busy, so we may decide to hold informal get-togethers for those months.
- Group Size:
- Each event will be limited to 6 participants maximum, including the organizer.
- Smaller groups = easier conversations, more connection, less overwhelm.
- Format:
- Meetups will last about 1.5–2 hours.
- We'll meet at cozy spots (like a quiet cafe or restaurant).
- No formal presentations — just casual discussion guided by a few light conversation prompts.
- It’s 100% okay just to listen if you’re feeling quieter that day.
- Book Selection:
- A mix of popular, literary, cozy, and thought-provoking titles.
- Members can suggest books, and we'll occasionally vote on future selections.
- Selections to be announced at least 1 month in advance to give time for reading.
- General Vibe:
- Calm, welcoming, non-judgmental.
- No icebreakers, forced games, or putting people on the spot.
- It's okay if you don’t finish the book — you're still welcome to come and listen.
I'm open to all feedback, so please don't hesitate to comment or reach out.
Looking forward to meeting you soon — in the calm, introvert-friendly way we all appreciate. 🖤 Courtney
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- NON-FICTION: Poets Square: A Memoir in Thirty CatsKitava - Solano Ave, Albany, CA
For this event, I've chosen Poets Square: A Memoir in Thirty Cats by Courtney Gustafson. As a long-time dog fan, I'm challenging myself to branch out and open my mind (and heart) to the idea of 30 (!) feral cats. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/216971220-poets-square
"Courtney writes toward a vision of connectedness, showing how taking care of the cats reshaped her understanding of empathy, resilience, and the healing power of wholly showing up for something outside yourself. She takes us from the dark alleys where she feeds feral cats to inside the tragically neglected homes where she climbs over piles of trash, and occasionally animals, and then into her own driveway with the cats she loves and must sometimes let go. Compelling and tender, Poets Square is as much about cats as it is about the urgency of care, community, and a little bit of dumb hope." — Penguin Random House
*This event will be held at the Kitava location on Solano Ave in Albany. They have lots of allergen-friendly food options. You can find their menu here: https://www.kitava.com/kitava-albany-menus/
Please reach out if you have any questions. Thanks!
- FICTION: Beautyland, by Marie-Helene BertinoCafe Leila, Berkeley, CA
For this event, I've chosen this sci-fi read by Marie-Helene Bertino. I'm not usually a sci-fi gal, but I admit that the description and the beautiful cover drew me in! Sometimes you need to ponder what it means to be human. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/127282939-beautyland
"Beautyland, named after the 'dash-to-in-a-pinch supply’ store that, along with Auto World’s floppy inflatable man, are totems from Adina’s childhood, is written in a dry, matter-of-fact style, befitting of a novel where the protagonist sends daily memos to a home world she’s never seen. But it’s not dull. Most certainly not. I could easily spend the rest of this review quoting Adina’s hilarious, poetic, and wise observations. Here’s a selection: 'I require speech lessons and corrective lenses, and most likely teeth braces. I am an expensive extraterrestrial’/ ‘Adulthood seems like a yearslong equation to beat traffic’/ ‘The ego of the human male is by far the most dangerous aspect of human society’ (to which the aliens respond: THIS HAS BEEN WELL DOCUMENTED) / ‘Death’s biggest surprise is that it does not end the conversation.’ My favourite line from the novel isn’t from a fax, but rather: ‘Adina smiles at the girl in the mirror. The girl in the mirror, bound by physics, returns her smile.’ It somehow typifies everything brilliant about Adina and this book." - Ian Mond, LocusMag
*This event will be held at Cafe Leila on San Pablo Ave in Berkeley. They have a large back patio, so hopefully we can sit outside. You can find their menu here: https://www.cafeleila.com/menus
Please reach out if you have any questions. Thanks!