What we’re about
WHAT WE'RE ALL ABOUT
Are you in your 40s, 50s, or 60s and looking to expand your social circle?
Perhaps you’re coupled but seeking new friends, or maybe you’re “single and looking.”
Either way, look no further! This group is designed to bring people together in fun, low-stress, interactive ways.
Speed-FRIENDING
These free events are hosted by the West Linn Library and give everyone the chance for a brief conversation with everyone else, regardless of gender or relationship status. Knowing everyone’s there for the same reason – to make new friends -- makes it somewhat easier to put yourself out there! These events are not romantic in nature and you do not have to live or work in W.Linn to participate – all who are able and willing to be kind, respectful, and good-natured are welcome including singles, individuals who are partnered, as well as couples looking for friends to socialize with as a couple.
Speed-DATING
These events are geared toward singles, held in public venues in the PDX suburbs, and involve brief one-on-one conversations. Unlike attending a MeetUp hike or game night hoping to cross paths with other singles, the brilliance of these events is you know everyone there is looking for love. While there may still be some nervous excitement, that fact has a way of leveling the playing field and reducing anxiety.
MEET'CHA THERE's
Additional events happening in the community will be posted as well, providing added opportunities to get out and meet others. These are open to those who are single as well as those who are partnered.
INVITATION
Come -- expand your social network, discover new interests, explore new friendships, perhaps find love, and have a great time in the process. We can't wait to meet you!
NOTE
The focus of this group and its events is on meeting people, enjoying conversation, and potentially forging new relationships, either platonic or romantic. Please, no youngins and no soliciting.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- MEET'CHA THERE--Halloween Masquerade Ball!Shawn Gardner Dancing, Tigard , OR
Who wants to dress up and dance?! Tickets are only $20 ($30 for 2).
Registration = 3 Steps:
- Hit the red "Attend" button here on my MeetUp page so I know you're planning to attend. We can coordinate and I'll watch for you if I know you're coming!
- Follow the link below to the original event posted by another MeetUp organizer. Hit the red "Attend" button there, so he knows you're coming.
- ...and follow his link to Ticket Tomato to buy your ticket(s).
-Jo
Annual Masquerade - Costume Dance
One of Portland's largest Halloween Parties, Live Band, Huge ballroom dance floor, lots of fun costumes.Sexy, Scary, Naughty or Nice…… All costumes are welcome!
Come out and enjoy an elegant evening of Fun, Friends and Dancing…..Learn more, register, and follow link to buy ticket(s) here
- Speed-DATING for Mid-Life SinglesThe Hive's Hardware Store Speak Easy (www.thehivecatering.com/thehardwarestore), Oregon City, OR
Cost: $35
WHAT
Speed-DATING is musical chairs for adult singles!
Pair up for a short conversation, after a few minutes, rotate & repeat. This particular event is for women-seeking-men & men-seeking-women. Learn moreWHY
Meeting new people isn't always easy. Work may connect you with a lot of folks, but that’s not true for many gig workers, entrepreneurs, work-from-homers, empty nesters, retirees, & other mid-lifers.Speed-DATING overcomes many common issues:
- Asking for a date can be nerve-wracking whether online or off
- Avoiding strangers for fear of disturbing them--who's to say they're single, let alone interested?
- Fearful of talking to someone in a group
- Feeling invisible at large social events
- Being stuck on a date with someone you're either not attracted to, or who hijacks the conversation
35-45% of PDX's mid-lifers are single & many are looking for less FaceTime & more face-to-face encounters. There are better options & asking can be easy! FAQs
WHO
Mid-lifers in their 40s–60s in or near the PDX ‘burbs with a level of self-awareness, who are emotionally available & ready to get to know & commit to the partner right for them.Are you a career-minded professional, a good ol’ workin’ boy or girl, or happily retired? All who are willing to be kind & respectful are welcome!
If:
- Now feels like the time to meet new people & explore a relationship, and
- You’d prefer a purposeful approach, but
- Aren’t sure how to start, how to go from online chats to meeting in-person, or how to get past small talk once you’re face-to-face,
…then it’s time to try something new!
THIS EVENT IS SPECIAL
It’s been designed specifically for mid-life singles like you to:- Make you feel welcome & appreciated
- Help you find common ground & foster engagement quickly
- Elevate the dating experience
Tools to help you feel comfortable & deepen connections:
- Free one-on-one coaching via video conference
- Ice breakers proven to get folks quickly engaged
- Conversation starters to keep discussions going
- Breaktime activity to make mixing & mingling more fun
- Courting Cards to make “the ask” easier
- Plus the opportunity to chat with others online post-event
Plus:
- Exclusive Ladies' Lounge
- Men-In-Suits raffle
LOWDOWN FOR THE LADIES
I don't recall attending an event where there weren't more women than men & it wasn’t always handled well. I’m embracing it by going out of my way to create a warm, cozy, inviting, high-class vibe for everyone, but especially for you ladies.Tim & I will prime the fellas to bring their A-Game. And, the evening of, when you're not talking up the guys you can escape to the sanctuary of an exclusive Ladies' Lounge out of sight of the gentlemen & other diners. More here
YOUR HOST
Hi, I’m Jo & like you, I'm in mid-life. I spent the past decade searching for "MyGuy.”Of all the things I tried, Speed-DATING utterly fascinated me—meeting several prospects in one night can be both efficient & Fun! In fact, you may meet more people than in a month of dating.
Nervous? It’s completely normal! Knowing everyone’s there for the same reason levels the playing field & can ease anxiety.
Let’s bring back romance, courting, & face-to-face connections. We can make the most of fast-track dating, while at the same time easing the pressure.
YOUR COACH
Tim Bray helps singles nationwide navigate the dating world with confidence. He emphasizes face-to-face encounters, champions the return of courtship, & specializes in the "Art of Approach."Tim’s adept at helping big-hearted men approach women without feeling creepy.
And, for ladies, he offers insight into the mind of today’s dating males, helping them attract quality men.
Tim’s Free Offer:
- A 30-min video call to identify dating hurdles
- Tips to help you relax, have fun, & get the most out of the event
- A recording the day of to help you prep
You'll schedule with Tim after registration.
WHERE
The Hive—a stylish venue in historic downtown Oregon City—is a collection of eateries with free parking & accessible facilities.The event will be in the basement "Hardware Store”—once a local tool & supply shop it’s been reimagined into a swanky speakeasy style bar.
FAQs
I’ve found most have heard of Speed-DATING, but many have never tried it. Learn more hereLET'S GET YOU SIGNED UP
STEP 1. RSVP on MeetUp (hit the red "Attend" button) so you can chat up attendees after the event
STEP 2. After registering on EventBrite ($35), you'll receive specific details on where to go & when to arrive - MEET'CHA THERE!--Hump Day Hobbies =)Clarkes General Store & Eatery, Beavercreek, OR
Come join my other MeetUp group -- Hump Day Hobbies -- for an evening of light, friendly socializing and personal hobby / crafting. It's like a quilting bee... but not necessarily quilting and, despite stereotypes, this is not just for the ladies. =)
# Come Nurture Your Soul & Further Your Project
EVENT DETAILS: https://www.meetup.com/hump-day-hobbies-or-city-w-linn-l-oswego/events/303816380/?isFirstPublish=true
RSVP via the HDH Group's event page linked above in order to receive any updates / notices. RSVP's are turned off here on this Finding Friends event page.
MEETUP GROUP PAGE & OTHER SCHEDULED EVENTS: https://www.meetup.com/hump-day-hobbies-or-city-w-linn-l-oswego/