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Welcome to New Jersey LGBTQ+ Meetups!
We're your go-to source for all things LGBTQ+ happening in New Jersey. We promote and showcase the many events organized by various LGBTQ+ groups in the state. *We are not affiliated with any one organization or group - just facilitator to help you find many of the vibrant LGBTQ+ events in NJ*
Stay tuned for the best happy hours, activities, book clubs and many other exciting happenings nearby! If you have LGBTQ+ events you'd like to advertise, please reach out to us with plenty of notice so we can add them, here.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Gay Social's Spotlight Social at The 244 SpotThe 244 Spot, South Amboy, NJ
Every other month on the last Friday, Gay Social brings our big LGBTQ+ energy to 244 Spot in South Amboy. This welcoming gathering is the perfect way to finish the month and kick off your weekend with some socializing & dancing. Whether you’re sipping cocktails or just soaking in the good vibes, it’s always a great time at 244! 🌈
💵 Cover & Bar Info: There's no longer a cover charge at the door. The bar is also cash-only, but no worries—there’s an ATM on-site for your convenience!
🚗 Parking Info: Free street parking is available, so finding a spot is a breeze.
🎟️ RSVP: Not required but helpful so we know you’re joining us! This event is open to anyone 21+.
This event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
T&Cs: Gay Social promotes inclusiveness, respect, and community. We enforce a zero-tolerance policy towards any form of harassment or misconduct to ensure a safe and welcoming environment for all. Please note that Gay Social is not responsible for individual behavior or personal consumption.
- LGBTQ Pride Workout and Happy HourChimney Rock CrossFit, Bound Brook, NJ
You're invited to come #sweatforacause with OUTAthletics!
OUTAthletics is not your typical workout fundraiser - we're totally extra!
OUTAthletics are 100% inclusive, not only of gender, sexuality and of favorite member of Destiny's Child...but also of fitness level.
Never done CrossFit? No problem! A Games-level athlete? Oh we've got something in store for you too! ALL fitness levels are welcome!Most people are signing up through other websites, so don't be afraid if only a few people sign up on Meetup. It is also ok to just show up on the day of the event, without RSVPing.
Here's how it works!
1. First - visit the ticket link to register yourself:
https://crcf.sites.zenplanner.com/event.cfm?eventId=6D0C8D2F-3FC6-4663-9F84-A86038A04831If that link doesn't work, try this one:
https://secure.givelively.org/teams/the-out-foundation/pride-365-infiltrate-with-love-2025/chimney-rock-crossfit-pride-wod-july-26-2025The funds raised will be used to support the Out Foundation to:
A) Empower queer young adults by providing access to inclusive fitness spaces, wellness resources, and more, B) Work with Gyms to make them more LGBTQ inclusive and C) Support the physical and mental health of the LGBTQ community.2. Now that you're all registered and fundraising has begun, head on over to The OUT Foundation shop and get you some gear...we recommend grabbing some more Pride gear wherever you can find it. Not that it's beauty contest...but it's definitely a "who wore it best" contest. More rainbows. More reps.
And yeah - that's basically it! We're super excited to have you at this awesome fundraising and sweat-inducing event.
Bring friends.XO
- Gay Social's UnwinedBeneduce Vineyards , Pittstown, NJ
We’re spending the afternoon at Beneduce Vineyards—great wine, even better company, and a dreamy setting that does all the work. We’ll have a designated gathering spot so just ask the staff when you arrive and they’ll point you toward the fun.
They have plenty of seating, so just bring your picnic snacks (outside food is welcome!) and settle in. No outside beverages allowed, but trust—the wine is worth it. Sometimes there’s a food truck too, if you’re in a grazing mood.
🎟️ No RSVP needed
🚗 Free parking on-site
Note: Last call is 3:30pm and $10pp reservations are required after 4pm.
This event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
T&Cs: Gay Social promotes inclusiveness, respect, and community. We enforce a zero-tolerance policy towards any form of harassment or misconduct to ensure a safe and welcoming environment for all. Please note that Gay Social is not responsible for individual behavior or personal consumption. - Gay Social's Reading Between The Lines LGBTQ Book ClubLink visible for attendees
📚💅 New book, new location, and a twist — Reading Between the Lines is back, now based out of Howling Basset Books’ gorgeous new Lambertville location, but this month we’re meeting virtually! 👀💻
We’re cracking open Ocean Vuong’s soul-shaking new novel, The Emperor of Gladness — a stunning follow-up from the Vietnamese American poet, essayist, and novelist that’s already snatching critical acclaim (and hearts 💔). Expect lyricism, longing, and at least one existential crisis — so, ya know, perfect book club vibes. ✨📖
📚 Support your local bookshop by purchasing here
This event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
T&Cs: Gay Social promotes inclusiveness, respect, and community. We enforce a zero-tolerance policy towards any form of harassment or misconduct to ensure a safe and welcoming environment for all. Please note that Gay Social is not responsible for individual behavior or personal consumption.
