
What we’re about
Those 45+ years young with empty(ing) nests in North Raleigh plus in East Durham, Brier Creek and Wake Forest are encouraged to join. We aim to keep our activities in this north central area of the Triangle to limit drive time and create more close-knit community. If you live beyond these areas, we welcome you but please honor our geographical focus. We will have a variety of social, service, and support activities as we navigate this life chapter where we are no longer totally parenting focused but are pursuing our own interests and friendships. Men, women, couples and singles are all encouraged to join and participate, organize events and/or make event suggestions. We hope to gather in person at least twice monthly - a mix of men only, women only, and both.
Potential Activities:
Game and card nights
Book reads & discussions - entertaining and intellectual
Movie watches
Documentary & discussion
Karaoke
Picnics and cookouts
Camping
Kickball games
Biking local trails
Bowling
Darts, pool, cornhole, ping pong
Progressive dinner parties
Potluck
Luncheons or Dinners
Coffee or tea
Happy hours
Local events
Community service
Practices:
- Come to at least one event to check out the fit while you enjoy the 60 day trial period. To be a member, you must annually pay $5 dues and organize a minimum of one event.
- Please keep your RSVPs, or cancel a minimum of 24 hours prior to an event. Communicate directly with the event Organizer when cancelling within 24 hours. No shows will lead to membership removal. Too many cancellations will also lead to removal. You must ACTIVELY MANAGE your RSVPs! If you are on a wait list, you often will get in, so you must keep track of it or remove yourself from the wait list.
- Check your messages; actively participate in the discussion board.
- Do not post external links for voting, fundraising, donations, etc. Keep this forum non-commercial. If you are involved in or even lead a charity or service, we would like to support you so please check with the Organizer(s).
- Criticize privately (including the Organizers) and compliment publicly.
- Be kind. No drama. Mean behavior (including confrontational language or behavior) will not be tolerated.
Pledge:
You will have 60 days after joining to try out the group before the annual per person membership of $5.00 is due to us via Venmo @jscanlo (last four phone digits are 8183). We are NOT paying through Meetup based on high fees and challenges we’ve encountered. Membership dues primarily ensure you are committed to participating rather than joining just to then sit on the sidelines. We'll use dues to cover the >$200 cost that Meetup charges to host the group; excess dues will be contributed toward event costs.
Upcoming events (4)
See all- Derby Day in DurhamMystic Farm & Distillery, Durham, NC
No need to road trip to Louisville, we can celebrate right here. Lots of fun activities planned. Tickets are $10.88/person including fees and include a cocktail and a Derby cup. RSVP here and purchase your ticket via the link. We'll touch base closer to the date to determine core hours since 2-9pm is pretty robust. Perhaps our crew will organize $1 bets on the race(s) also, to amp up the fun even more. TBD.