Salt Lake City life Coaching and neurological Repatterning

Emma had always been terrified of speaking in front of an audience. From the moment she stood up in class as a child, her heart would race, her palms would sweat, and her mind would go blank. As she grew older, this fear only intensified. She had avoided any situations where she would need to speak in public, even turning down job opportunities because they involved presentations.
One day, Emma’s manager at work, Sarah, noticed Emma’s hesitation when it came to leading meetings. Emma was an expert at her job, but her fear of public speaking was holding her back from advancing. Sarah, who had studied techniques for reprogramming the nervous system, saw an opportunity to help Emma. She knew that with the right approach, Emma’s nervous system could be trained to respond differently to the thought of public speaking.

### Building Trust and Comfort

Before diving into the techniques, Sarah took time to build trust and comfort with Emma. She asked Emma about her experiences with public speaking and listened carefully. Sarah made sure to engage with Emma in a way that felt natural and non-judgmental. Emma felt understood, which made her more willing to try something new.

### Changing the Way Emma Felt About Fear

Sarah began by helping Emma change how her body responded to the feeling of fear. Whenever Emma thought about speaking in public, she would immediately feel nervous—her heart would race, and her anxiety would overwhelm her. Sarah explained that this nervousness was simply her nervous system reacting to a past experience, not a present reality.
Sarah guided Emma through a process where she could gradually change the way her nervous system responded to public speaking. Instead of seeing her anxiety as a negative, Sarah encouraged Emma to reframe it as excitement. This shift helped Emma see her body’s reaction not as something to fear, but as a signal that she was about to do something important and exciting.

### Creating New Responses

Next, Sarah helped Emma create a new, positive response to the anxiety she felt. They worked on a physical gesture—a simple action—that Emma could do before she spoke in public to trigger a feeling of calm and confidence. Sarah asked Emma to think about a time when she felt completely confident and empowered. As Emma recalled this moment, Sarah encouraged her to associate it with a specific gesture, like squeezing her thumb and finger together.
Whenever Emma felt anxiety building up before speaking, she would use this gesture to reprogram her nervous system to trigger the feelings of confidence and calmness she had linked to it. With practice, Emma began to notice that using this gesture helped her shift from fear to a more positive, empowered state.

### Shifting Mental Imagery

Sarah also helped Emma change the mental images that triggered her anxiety. When Emma thought about public speaking, her mind automatically went to images of herself stumbling, feeling awkward, or making mistakes. Sarah guided Emma through a process where she would replace these negative images with ones that reflected success: her standing tall, speaking clearly, and feeling confident in front of an audience.
Over time, Emma’s nervous system began to respond to these new, positive images, and the fear she once felt before speaking slowly faded away.

### The First Presentation

A few weeks later, Emma was asked to lead a team meeting. This time, instead of her usual dread and anxiety, she felt calm and even a bit excited. She used the physical gesture to trigger confidence, focused on the positive mental images she had created, and reminded herself that her nerves were simply a sign of excitement, not something to fear. When Emma stood up to speak, she felt in control, confident, and ready.
The meeting went smoothly. She spoke clearly, answered questions, and even enjoyed the experience. At the end of the presentation, Emma was pleasantly surprised by how well it had gone.

### The Transformation

As time passed, Emma’s fear of public speaking continued to diminish. She began to volunteer for more presentations and took on new challenges at work. Her success in overcoming this fear gave her confidence in other areas of her life as well. She felt more empowered and motivated, knowing that she could reprogram her nervous system to handle difficult situations.

Emma had always been terrified of speaking in front of an audience. From the moment she stood up in class as a child, her heart would race, her palms would sweat, and her mind would go blank. As she grew older, this fear only intensified. She had avoided any situations where she would need to speak in public, even turning down job opportunities because they involved presentations.
One day, Emma’s manager at work, Sarah, noticed Emma’s hesitation when it came to leading meetings. Emma was an expert at her job, but her fear of public speaking was holding her back from advancing. Sarah, who had studied techniques for reprogramming the nervous system, saw an opportunity to help Emma. She knew that with the right approach, Emma’s nervous system could be trained to respond differently to the thought of public speaking.

### Building Trust and Comfort

Before diving into the techniques, Sarah took time to build trust and comfort with Emma. She asked Emma about her experiences with public speaking and listened carefully. Sarah made sure to engage with Emma in a way that felt natural and non-judgmental. Emma felt understood, which made her more willing to try something new.

### Changing the Way Emma Felt About Fear

Sarah began by helping Emma change how her body responded to the feeling of fear. Whenever Emma thought about speaking in public, she would immediately feel nervous—her heart would race, and her anxiety would overwhelm her. Sarah explained that this nervousness was simply her nervous system reacting to a past experience, not a present reality.
Sarah guided Emma through a process where she could gradually change the way her nervous system responded to public speaking. Instead of seeing her anxiety as a negative, Sarah encouraged Emma to reframe it as excitement. This shift helped Emma see her body’s reaction not as something to fear, but as a signal that she was about to do something important and exciting.

### Creating New Responses

Next, Sarah helped Emma create a new, positive response to the anxiety she felt. They worked on a physical gesture—a simple action—that Emma could do before she spoke in public to trigger a feeling of calm and confidence. Sarah asked Emma to think about a time when she felt completely confident and empowered. As Emma recalled this moment, Sarah encouraged her to associate it with a specific gesture, like squeezing her thumb and finger together.
Whenever Emma felt anxiety building up before speaking, she would use this gesture to reprogram her nervous system to trigger the feelings of confidence and calmness she had linked to it. With practice, Emma began to notice that using this gesture helped her shift from fear to a more positive, empowered state.

### Shifting Mental Imagery

Sarah also helped Emma change the mental images that triggered her anxiety. When Emma thought about public speaking, her mind automatically went to images of herself stumbling, feeling awkward, or making mistakes. Sarah guided Emma through a process where she would replace these negative images with ones that reflected success: her standing tall, speaking clearly, and feeling confident in front of an audience.
Over time, Emma’s nervous system began to respond to these new, positive images, and the fear she once felt before speaking slowly faded away.

### The First Presentation

A few weeks later, Emma was asked to lead a team meeting. This time, instead of her usual dread and anxiety, she felt calm and even a bit excited. She used the physical gesture to trigger confidence, focused on the positive mental images she had created, and reminded herself that her nerves were simply a sign of excitement, not something to fear. When Emma stood up to speak, she felt in control, confident, and ready.
The meeting went smoothly. She spoke clearly, answered questions, and even enjoyed the experience. At the end of the presentation, Emma was pleasantly surprised by how well it had gone.

### The Transformation

As time passed, Emma’s fear of public speaking continued to diminish. She began to volunteer for more presentations and took on new challenges at work. Her success in overcoming this fear gave her confidence in other areas of her life as well. She felt more empowered and motivated, knowing that she could reprogram her nervous system to handle difficult situations.

Emma had always been terrified of speaking in front of an audience. From the moment she stood up in class as a child, her heart would race, her palms would sweat, and her mind would go blank. As she grew older, this fear only intensified. She had avoided any situations where she would need to speak in public, even turning down job opportunities because they involved presentations.
One day, Emma’s manager at work, Sarah, noticed Emma’s hesitation when it came to leading meetings. Emma was an expert at her job, but her fear of public speaking was holding her back from advancing. Sarah, who had studied techniques for reprogramming the nervous system, saw an opportunity to help Emma. She knew that with the right approach, Emma’s nervous system could be trained to respond differently to the thought of public speaking.

### Building Trust and Comfort

Before diving into the techniques, Sarah took time to build trust and comfort with Emma. She asked Emma about her experiences with public speaking and listened carefully. Sarah made sure to engage with Emma in a way that felt natural and non-judgmental. Emma felt understood, which made her more willing to try something new.

### Changing the Way Emma Felt About Fear

Sarah began by helping Emma change how her body responded to the feeling of fear. Whenever Emma thought about speaking in public, she would immediately feel nervous—her heart would race, and her anxiety would overwhelm her. Sarah explained that this nervousness was simply her nervous system reacting to a past experience, not a present reality.
Sarah guided Emma through a process where she could gradually change the way her nervous system responded to public speaking. Instead of seeing her anxiety as a negative, Sarah encouraged Emma to reframe it as excitement. This shift helped Emma see her body’s reaction not as something to fear, but as a signal that she was about to do something important and exciting.

### Creating New Responses

Next, Sarah helped Emma create a new, positive response to the anxiety she felt. They worked on a physical gesture—a simple action—that Emma could do before she spoke in public to trigger a feeling of calm and confidence. Sarah asked Emma to think about a time when she felt completely confident and empowered. As Emma recalled this moment, Sarah encouraged her to associate it with a specific gesture, like squeezing her thumb and finger together.
Whenever Emma felt anxiety building up before speaking, she would use this gesture to reprogram her nervous system to trigger the feelings of confidence and calmness she had linked to it. With practice, Emma began to notice that using this gesture helped her shift from fear to a more positive, empowered state.

### Shifting Mental Imagery

Sarah also helped Emma change the mental images that triggered her anxiety. When Emma thought about public speaking, her mind automatically went to images of herself stumbling, feeling awkward, or making mistakes. Sarah guided Emma through a process where she would replace these negative images with ones that reflected success: her standing tall, speaking clearly, and feeling confident in front of an audience.
Over time, Emma’s nervous system began to respond to these new, positive images, and the fear she once felt before speaking slowly faded away.

### The First Presentation

A few weeks later, Emma was asked to lead a team meeting. This time, instead of her usual dread and anxiety, she felt calm and even a bit excited. She used the physical gesture to trigger confidence, focused on the positive mental images she had created, and reminded herself that her nerves were simply a sign of excitement, not something to fear. When Emma stood up to speak, she felt in control, confident, and ready.
The meeting went smoothly. She spoke clearly, answered questions, and even enjoyed the experience. At the end of the presentation, Emma was pleasantly surprised by how well it had gone.

### The Transformation

As time passed, Emma’s fear of public speaking continued to diminish. She began to volunteer for more presentations and took on new challenges at work. Her success in overcoming this fear gave her confidence in other areas of her life as well. She felt more empowered and motivated, knowing that she could reprogram her nervous system to handle difficult situations.