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What we’re about

Welcome to Sex Positive Utah!
A community focused on education, self-improvement, and playful exploration in a safe, consensual environment.

Note: This is NOT a dating or hookup group.

Sex Positive Utah is a chapter of Sex Positive World

How to Join:

  • Complete a thoughtful application. Profiles, including a recognizable photo and name, are viewable by all members to foster trust and safety.
  • Partners or couples must apply separately.

What is Sex Positivity?
A movement that values all consensual sexual expressions as healthy. We emphasize informed consent, sexual education, and risk-aware practices. Sex-positivity makes no moral distinctions among types of sexual expression, orientation, or identification, regarding these choices as matters of personal preference.

What We Do:
We host events including classes, discussions, socials, and experiential gatherings, either online or in-person. Events are often free or low-cost, with a focus on community building, education, and sharing experiences.
Sex Positive Utah is not a dating or hookup group. We prioritize emotional safety, and approaching the group for dating can alienate members who are not interested in that. If you're seeking community, education, and playful exploration, you're welcome here. If you're looking for sexual partners, this group may not meet your expectations. While relationships may develop naturally, they are not the group's focus. We ask members to ensure their intentions align with our goals of community, education, and self-improvement before attending events.

Event Levels:

  • Level 1 (L1): Social or educational events, typically with no touch or sexual energy and open to everyone. These include discussions, workshops, classes, and outings. Guests are usually welcome.
  • Level 2 (L2): Events with potential for nudity, touch, and sexual energy, but typically no genital touch. Examples: snuggle parties, group massages, and kink workshops. Consent and clear communication are key. To attend, you need to have attended several L1 events, participated in 2-3 "Boundaries" events, and demonstrated skill in navigating consent.
  • Level 3 (L3): Sexual events involving nudity and consensual sexual touch, including genitals, but typically no penetration or anything requiring barriers or STI discussions. To attend, you must have a solid track record at L2 events and proven ability to handle boundaries and consent.
  • Level 4 (L4): Full consensual sexual expression is allowed. These events are only held with experienced facilitators and aren't listed on Meetup due to regulations.

Rules:

  • Members must be 21+.
  • Most events are alcohol and substance-free. Some social events will state clearly in the description that legal substance use is allowed.
  • A strong culture of consent and clear boundaries are essential for safety at events. We enthusiastically embrace personal and event boundaries (L1, L2, L3, etc.) and always verbally negotiate consent. No one is expected to do anything or interact with anyone they don't want to.
  • Sending personal messages or social media requests to other members requires in-person consent. Before contacting someone online, connect at two or three events first, and consider offering your contact info rather than requesting theirs. Unsolicited messages may result in removal from the group. If meeting outside events, we recommend doing so in a safe, public place.
  • Confidentiality is key. When discussing the group or our events, do not use names of other members or any identifiable information.

If anything at an event or with a group member makes you uncomfortable, reach out to any member of the leadership team confidentially.

If you're new, signal you've read the group rules by including the word FRIES in your application. FRIES stands for consent being: Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific.

We look forward to seeing you at an event soon!
~ Your Sex Positive Utah Team