
What we’re about
This group is for you if you’re done with guesswork in dating and ready to attract the relationship you know you deserve.
Whether you're a divorced, single professional woman or man — and you've done the healing, you're self-aware, and now you're ready for real love — you're in the right place. 😎
I run powerful workshops and events designed to help you date with clarity, confidence and intention — so you can attract a partner who’s aligned with your values, vision, and future… and build a relationship that truly lasts. 💞
We don’t do shallow dating advice here. We go deep — on mindset, patterns, and the energy you’re bringing into dating — so you’re not wasting time on misaligned connections, and instead calling in love that feels nourishing, reciprocal and aligned. 🥰
If you’re ready to meet someone who matches your depth, your values, and your heart… this space will support your journey every step of the way.
Here’s how to go deeper:-
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Uncover what’s blocking your relationship success — and how to date in a way that leads to real love.
About Me:
I’m Topé (pronounced Top-Air), a Relationship, Dating & Self-Love Coach for high-achieving divorced women and men. I'm trained with the Relationship Coaching Institute, and I support clients through transformational 1:1 and group coaching, and courses that empower you to shift patterns and find aligned love. 💞
My own journey took nearly 20 years post-divorce to get it right 😳🫣 — and now I help others shorten that path and finally get what they want in love. I don't want it to take as long for you!
If you’re ready to stop settling, start showing up differently, and find your person — I’d love to support you. 🤗
Coach Topé
✨ Your Conscious Dating Guide✨
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Dating Pattern Decoder Pop-Up (Free 7-day Group)Link visible for attendees
Break the loop. Date better. Feel good doing it.
Complete this form to get the link.Do you ever feel like you're dating on autopilot?...swiping, talking, hoping... only to end up in the same situation with a slightly different face? 🫣
.You're not alone - this was certainly something I went through, and so many people I know have too.
And more importantly, you're not 'broken'...and dating isn't a waste of time. 😌
.You’ve just got patterns. We all do.
.Starting Monday 28th July, I’m opening a private Telegram group for 7 days to help you start breaking the patterns that are quietly shaping your dating life.
.In this free pop-up space, I’ll be dropping short daily voice notes to help you:
- Recognise what’s really going on underneath your dating choices
- Spot the sneaky patterns keeping you in repeat-mode
- Start shifting how you show up so dating feels clearer, lighter, and a lot less like hard work
- Take real, doable steps toward the relationship you actually want
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For the week I'll be in your ear (lucky you 😉), guiding you gently out of the loop and towards better love stories.
.No pressure for you. Just a space to reflect, maybe laugh at yourself a bit if you have any 'doh' moments, and start dating with more awareness (and way less stress).
.Spots are limited, so if your gut says yes, come join us by completing this form and I'll send you the link for the group: bit.ly/datingpatterndecoder
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See you in there. 😊 - The Dating Clinic – Expert advice with zero fluff (and a little sass 😉)Link visible for attendees
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Hello, hello… '*Dr' Coach Topé (*not a real doctor 😜) is in the building - love goggles firmly on, and ready to listen to what ails you dating-wise. 🩺
.If your dating life has been a bit of a head-scratcher lately - ghosting, situationships, never-ending confusion, or just wondering “Is it me… or is modern dating just not it?” - you’re in the right place.
.Welcome to The Dating Clinic - a free, mini-training + real-time expert Q&A, where I’ll be dishing out insight, and giving you some much-needed clarity on where things aren't quite working.
.Expect straight-talking advice, practical takeaways, and a sprinkling of feel-good empowerment for your love life.
.Here's what's on the clinic list:
💘 A bite-sized training inspired by my signature 6-step Dream Partner Formula™
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💘 A chance to ask your dating question live - or submit it in advance (anonymously if you fancy)
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💘 A closer look at your dating patterns and what might really be going on
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💘 Supportive, honest advice - zero judgement, just real insight to help you move forward
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🎧 Can’t make it live? No worries - you’ll get a replay (but only for a short time, so don’t dilly-dally 😉)
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Who's this for?
You, if you’re:
➡ Done winging it and ready to date with more clarity and confidence
➡ Looking for real, aligned connection (not just another situationship)
➡ Curious about why things haven’t quite clicked - and open to a new approach
.Whether you’ve never had a long-term relationship, you’re freshly out of a “what even was that?” 😑 type of dynamic, or you’re dating after divorce - this clinic will give you tools, perspective, and some TLC for your love life.
.Prescription: Come curious, leave clearer.
Side effects may include: Empowered choices, better matches, and fewer “what the hell was that?” 🤔 moments.
.Totally free. Come along for a dose of dating sanity - bring a cuppa… or a glass of wine. 🍷
.Sign up here, and see you there! 🤩
- 5 Mistakes Women & Men Make When Looking for Love (and how to overcome them)Link visible for attendees
(LISTEN NOW BY CLICKING HERE-FREE pre-recorded trainings-immediate access)
What if the biggest blocks to love were patterns you didn’t even know you were repeating?
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On the journey to finding a fulfilling relationship, many of us fall into habits and behaviours that feel normal… but actually keep love at arm’s length.
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In these insightful pre-recorded trainings, you’ll learn:
✨ The most common dating mistakes women make
✨ The most common mistakes men make
✨ The key patterns that sabotage love, and how to break them
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These insights matter. Why?
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Because repeating the same patterns can lead to ongoing frustration, heartbreak, and unfulfilling connections.
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You'll walk away with practical strategies to shift your dating approach, deepen your self-awareness, and create space for a relationship that truly fits.
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🎁 Plus, you’ll get a bonus Conscious Dating Guide, packed with practical tips to help you date more intentionally and attract the right kind of partner.
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Click here to access the free training and guide.
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Join my free Conscious Dating Telegram Channel and share your insights with me. I'd love to hear!
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Look forward to seeing you there! 😊🤍
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(Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash) - 5 Mistakes Women & Men Make When Looking for Love (and how to overcome them)Link visible for attendees
(LISTEN NOW BY CLICKING HERE-FREE pre-recorded trainings-immediate access)
What if the biggest blocks to love were patterns you didn’t even know you were repeating?
.
.
On the journey to finding a fulfilling relationship, many of us fall into habits and behaviours that feel normal… but actually keep love at arm’s length.
.
.
In these insightful pre-recorded trainings, you’ll learn:
✨ The most common dating mistakes women make
✨ The most common mistakes men make
✨ The key patterns that sabotage love, and how to break them
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These insights matter. Why?
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Because repeating the same patterns can lead to ongoing frustration, heartbreak, and unfulfilling connections.
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You'll walk away with practical strategies to shift your dating approach, deepen your self-awareness, and create space for a relationship that truly fits.
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🎁 Plus, you’ll get a bonus Conscious Dating Guide, packed with practical tips to help you date more intentionally and attract the right kind of partner.
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Click here to access the free training and guide.
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Join my free Conscious Dating Telegram Channel and share your insights with me. I'd love to hear!
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Look forward to seeing you there! 😊🤍
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(Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash)