
What we’re about
### ❤️ What We’re About
Welcome to a conversation-driven community for singles, relationship explorers, and anyone curious about love, growth, and connection. Whether you’re fresh out of something, stuck in a “complicated” situation, figuring out what you want next, or ready to reflect on patterns, you’re in the right place.
We’re here for real talk. This isn’t therapy, a dating service, or a lecture. It’s an interactive space to explore meaningful relationship dynamics together. This is a space to feel seen, heard, and supported. 🥂💕
### 🗣️ What to Expect
Each event is:
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Discussion-based (not therapy, but often therapeutic).
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Peer-led with trained moderators (not licensed clinicians).
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Insight-focused, mixing open conversations, real stories, expert visits, and community wisdom.
We're not here to diagnose, fix, or pressure anyone into sharing. Just thoughtful people asking better questions about love, communication, and connection. We come together to share stories, reflect on dating and relationship patterns, and exchange perspectives with others who are also navigating the world of love, heartbreak, growth, and connection.
### 🔍 What We Explore Together:
- What do I actually want in a relationship?
- Why do certain patterns keep showing up for me?
- How do I spot red flags or recognize green ones?
- What’s blocking deeper emotional connections?
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### 🌈 All Are Welcome
- Singles who are tired of surface-level conversations
- People working on self-awareness and emotional growth
- Relationship-minded folks, dating with intention, not just for fun
- Coaches, therapists, and curious minds who love exploring the psychology of love
Yes, many of our members are single. Some attend to expand their network. Some come with partners. This isn’t a dating group, but it is a great way to meet thoughtful, emotionally intelligent people.
Diversity makes our conversations richer and more real. 💬💕
So grab your virtual cocktail, settle in, and join the conversation. No pressure. No pretense. Just a chance to connect and grow together.
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### 🛡️ Our Community Standards
We believe in kindness, respect, and creating space for all voices. Instead of “treat people how you want to be treated,” we believe in:
👉 “Treat people how they actually want to be treated.”
👉 Respect is expected through and through. Disrespectful behavior of any kind will not be tolerated and may result in an immediate ban.
Whether you come to speak, listen, or just reflect silently, there’s room for you here.
We protect your experience with clear guidelines:
- Camera optional, respect nonverbal participation
- No DMs, flirting, or follow-ups without consent
- No coaching, “fixing,” or trauma-dumping
- Moderators guide every session to ensure safety, flow, and mutual respect
For full community guidelines, visit: **👉 https://shorturl.at/hfWzg**
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### 💬 Final Vibe
If you’re looking for real conversations, not just “how’s your week going?”, join us. Bring your curiosity, your questions, and your whole self. We’re not here to impress. We’re here to explore.
✨ And if you want to explore deeper questions solo or with a partner? Check out our conversational card game: 👉 [ www.soulmated.co](www.soulmated.co)
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Featured event

Are You Emotionally Available, or Just Accessible?
We all crave connection, but are we truly emotionally available, or simply accessible when it’s convenient?
In today’s connected world, emotional availability and accessibility often get mistaken for the same thing. But being reachable doesn’t always mean being open. This session invites you to explore the subtle difference between showing up out of habit and showing up with heart.
💡 What does emotional availability means?
This conversation dives into:
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What emotional availability truly means and why it takes more than consistency or communication to build closeness.
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Difference between showing up physically versus being present emotionally. It’s easy to confuse openness with availability, but true emotional presence requires self-awareness, boundaries, and vulnerability.
💬 What to Expect
This is a peer-led group discussion. There’s no formal presentation or coaching. You’ll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or just listen in, you’re welcome here.
🎉 This session is perfect for anyone wondering whether to follow the sparks or give slow-burning love a chance!
✨ Join us for an eye-opening conversation that might just change the way you think about love! Whether you’ve been caught up in the chase for instant sparks or are wondering if you should give that slow-burning connection a chance, this discussion is for you. 💬💞
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
🛒 Explore our products here: https://shorturl.at/hpqw1
Upcoming events
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•OnlineSoulSessions (Pop-Up Edition)
OnlineSoulSessions (Pop-Up Edition)
Real Talk. Real Faces. Real Connection.This isn’t just another Sunday night scroll.
It’s a space to slow down, speak up, and connect—live, on camera, and in real time.Each SoulSession is a pop-up. No set agenda. Just presence.
We might share what’s brewing behind the scenes at Soulmated, explore a few prompts from our decks, or open the floor to whatever’s on your heart.🎴 No pressure to perform. Just come ready to be seen.
💬 Expect real dialogue, not distant commentary.
🧠 Some nights may lean reflective, others exploratory.📍This is a camera-on space.
If your camera is off, you’ll be placed in the waiting room. If it stays off, you’ll be removed from the session.
This helps us protect the energy and intimacy of the group.🪑 15 spots only.
Small on purpose, so everyone can speak if they choose.🍷 Bring your wine, tea, or favorite drink.
Let’s close the weekend on a good note—with connection, insight, and warmth.Our goal?
Everyone leaves with value and a positive vibe.Before registering, ask yourself:
“Am I ready to contribute to a thoughtful, open-hearted space?”We’d love to have you.
Dan
🛒Explore our products here: https://shorturl.at/hpqw112 attendees
•OnlineAre You Emotionally Available, or Just Accessible?
OnlineWe all crave connection, but are we truly emotionally available, or simply accessible when it’s convenient?
In today’s connected world, emotional availability and accessibility often get mistaken for the same thing. But being reachable doesn’t always mean being open. This session invites you to explore the subtle difference between showing up out of habit and showing up with heart.
💡 What does emotional availability means?
This conversation dives into:-
What emotional availability truly means and why it takes more than consistency or communication to build closeness.
-
Difference between showing up physically versus being present emotionally. It’s easy to confuse openness with availability, but true emotional presence requires self-awareness, boundaries, and vulnerability.
💬 What to Expect
This is a peer-led group discussion. There’s no formal presentation or coaching. You’ll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or just listen in, you’re welcome here.🎉 This session is perfect for anyone wondering whether to follow the sparks or give slow-burning love a chance!
✨ Join us for an eye-opening conversation that might just change the way you think about love! Whether you’ve been caught up in the chase for instant sparks or are wondering if you should give that slow-burning connection a chance, this discussion is for you. 💬💞
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
🛒 Explore our products here: https://shorturl.at/hpqw1
36 attendees-
•OnlineAttraction vs. Intention: What Are You Really Looking For?
OnlineDetails
We’ve all been drawn to someone who seemed magnetic—but later realized it wasn’t aligned. This session explores the tension between attraction and intention, and how our choices shape what we find.
In dating, attraction often sparks the beginning, but intention determines the outcome. Together, we’ll explore what drives our patterns and how to move toward more conscious connection.💡 What does attraction vs. intention mean?
This conversation dives into:- Why instant chemistry can mislead us.
- How to balance emotional pull with clarity of purpose.
- Recognizing when desire aligns or conflicts with your values.
💬 What to Expect
This is a peer-led group discussion. There’s no formal presentation or coaching. You’ll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or just listen in, you’re welcome here.🎉 This session is perfect for anyone wondering whether to follow the sparks or give slow-burning love a chance!
✨ Join us for an eye-opening conversation that might just change the way you think about love! Whether you’ve been caught up in the chase for instant sparks or are wondering if you should give that slow-burning connection a chance, this discussion is for you. 💬💞
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
🛒 Explore our products here: https://shorturl.at/hpqw1
32 attendees
Past events
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