
What we’re about
🍷 Welcome... If you're single, sociable, aged 40-62 (at time of joining) and live in Essex then you may be interested in joining our group - please read on...
We're all about meeting new people and making friends with plenty of fun & laughter along the way. We mostly achieve this while socialising over a few drinks in the best bars and pubs, or perhaps dancing the night away with a DJ, live band or tribute act, 🎶 💃
Whether its a free casino tribute evening (with DJ after), a 70s/80s night or a Karaoke evening you'll be guaranteed a brilliant time with like minded singles.
We also run occasional day trips, overnighters and longer breaks - all are lively and fun and offer timetabled sightseeing with pubs, meals and bar stops along the way - it's a great way to relax, socialise and get to know others 🍻🍴
◼️ HOSTED & RELIABLE...
Unlike other groups, all our events are well organised, highly reliable and properly hosted. We'll be ready to meet and greet you at the exact spot and time we say, have a chat and introduce you to others.
◼️ NO TIME TO LOSE...
Remember, life is not a rehearsal, so switch off the TV, getup from your sofa and enjoy a fab evening out with some lovely people instead. What have you got to lose?
◼️ IF YOU LIKE US...
After attending two events, if you like us, appreciate our efforts and would like to come along to more of our events, our ONCE OFF joining fee is just £19.99.
We are all volunteers and freely give up our spare time. Your joining fee is much appreciated and helps towards our annual bill from meetup.com and other running expenses. "We do all the hard work and make it happen, all you have to do is turn up and enjoy"
◼️ WE HOPE YOU'LL JOIN US SOON... 💃🍷🍻 🎶
PS: We are not a dating website, we are a social group for singles who want to meet new people and have some fun by coming along to events IN REAL LIFE.
"We do all the hard work and make it happen, all you have to do is turn up and enjoy"
◼️NEW APPLICATIONS...
New membership is only open to single, unattached people in the Essex area who are happy to supply a good profile photo of just themselves and are aged 40-62 at time of joining.
◼️RSVP (RULES)...
Your RSVP to an event means that we will be expecting you. Anyone who turns up unexpectedly (without an RSVP) or clocks-up multiple no-shows or lastminute cancellations will gain a reputation for being inconsiderate and unreliable and may be deleted from the group.
◼️BE FRIENDLY (RULES)...
Anyone who acts inappropriately or is unfriendly, argumentative or disrespectful (especially towards the organisers who give their time freely) will be deleted from the group.
NOTE: In line with meetup.com guidelines, group organisers have the right to deny or terminate memberships at their discretion (a reason would be provided).
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Mikes Birthday Party (all members welcome even if we've not yet met)Genting Casino (aka Westcliff Casino), Westcliff
Hi Everyone 🎉🎈
I (Mike) will be celebrating my big Birthday and hope you'll be able to join me with other friends and familiar faces for a fun evening together.
📍 Venue: Genting Casino
📅 Date: Sat 5th April
⏰ Time: From 9pmI've reserved some tables in the main bar area for us all, with some complimentary drinks and a resident DJ who will set the mood for a great evening.
Lots of friends including past and present meetup members have been invited so this will also be an opportunity for everyone to get together and enjoy a catch-up.
I do hope you can make it (or drop in for a while) and look forward to seeing you there.
All the vey best, From Mike
PS: Please don't worry about presents or gifts, just come along and enjoy the evening.
PPS: If you know others who might like to come along that I know, please feel free to contact me (Mike) so I can make arrangements.
Members, please click to RSVP if you would like to join us for some drinks, some dancing and a fun night. 🍹💃🍺🕺
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✪ WHO CAN JOIN US HERE? ✪To join in with our group at this event, you must be a member of our group with an RSVP. We are unable to include unexpected strangers, guests and non-members (unless previously agreed by Mike).
If you are not a member of our meetup group (Southend Over 40s), simply apply to join us and then you can RSVP. Click here to join our group: https://www.meetup.com/southend-over-40s-nights-out/?action=join
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✪ RSVP REQUIRED ✪Members, please click RSVP so we know who to expect and you'll also be kept up to date with event news and any important changes.
If you later find you can't make it, please undo your RSVP asap - it's courteous, only takes a moment and could free up a space for someone else.NOTE: Members who clock-up multiple no-shows or last minute cancellations will gain a reputation for being unreliable and inconsiderate and may not be allowed to attend events with an attendee limit or may be deleted from the group.
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✪ ENTRY TO THE CASINO ✪Please make your way to entrance on the far right of the building as you look at it. Reception will ask if you are a member, (it's free to join but see requirements below).
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✪ ABOUT THE GENTING CLUB ✪A new style red membership card is required (issued from 2021). If you do not have one then you'll need photo ID to register. Registration is quick and easy at the reception desk. It takes under 5 mins but you MUST bring some photo id (eg: passport or driving licence). No red membership card or photo ID = No entry.
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✪ MEETING SPOT & TIME ✪We'll meet on the right hand side of the large bar. We have our tables reserved which will be in my name (Mike).
Your host (Pippa) will be standing around this area from 9pm, ready to meet and greet everybody. If you'd like to have a chat and get to know others, then please arrive soon after 9pm. as conversation and introductions can be difficult once the entertainment begins.
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✪ NEWER MEMBERS ✪For newer members, don't worry about your first few visits as everyone is here to have a good time, meet new people, and socialise, so you're pretty much guaranteed to enjoy the evening.
Your host will be Pippa. If you don't know her, take a good look at her photo, come and say hello (no matter what she's doing), and she'll introduce you to the others.
We'll do our best to look out for you based upon your profile picture (hope its a good one?).
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✪ PARKING ✪There are ample public spaces along the seafront either side of the casino (usually free after 6pm - please check).
The spaces directly outside the casino are free for any member visiting the casino after 7pm (but not overnight).
Phone the casino on 01702 352919 to double check their free parking terms & conditions.
We hope you can join us... 🍷🎶💃
- Monkies wedding @ the Terrace Bar, FREE ENTRY 💃🍺🎶🍸The Terrace Bar & Restaurant, Southend-on-Sea
Join us for an evening of music with the amazing band, Monkies Wedding, at the Hamlet Court pub in Westcliff. To kick start the end of the working week, those crazy monkies are back for a night of Ska, Rock, Reggae & Pop.
Monkies Wedding are arguably the best Ska, Rocksteady, Reggae, Soul, Pop band around.
For those who've not been to the Terrace Bar before... it is Southend's best kept secret! Hidden off Southend High street, it has a great vibe, live music, serves food and has great service. We also have our own table and there is a dance floor in front of the stage 🥂🍷🥳!
So why not join us from 8:00pm for yet another spectacular evening of entertainment, drinks and dancing 💃🥂🎶
We hope to see you there 🍷💃
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✪ WHO CAN JOIN US HERE? ✪To join in with our group at this event, you must be a member of our meetup group with an RSVP. We are unable to include unexpected strangers and non-members. Guests must be accompanied by an existing member, aged 40-59, single and visiting us for the first time.
If you are not a member of our meetup group (Southend Over 40s), simply apply to join us and then you can RSVP. Click here to join our group: https://www.meetup.com/southend-over-40s-nights-out/?action=join
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✪ NEWER MEMBERS ✪For newer members, don't worry about your first few visits as everyone is here to have a good time, meet new people and socialise so you're pretty much guaranteed to enjoy the evening.
Your host will be Pippa. If you don't know her, take a good look at her photo, come and say hello (no matter what she's doing) and she'll introduce you to the others.
We'll do our best to look out for you based upon your profile picture (hope its a good one?).
Newer members should ideally arrive about 800pm.
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✪ MEETING SPOT & TIME ✪We'll have our own table and area by the dance floor.... 🥳
I'll update nearer the time.Your hosts will be standing around here from 8:00pm ready to meet and greet everybody. If you'd like to have a chat and get to know others then please arrive soon after 8pm as conversation and introductions can be difficult once the entertainment begins.
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✪ PARKING ✪There is car parking directly behind The Terrace Bar accessible from Alexandra Street.