What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Karaoke at the Crafty CrabCrafty Crab - Richmond Southside Plaza, Richmond, VA
Unleash your inner star at a night of seafood, drinks, and fun at the Crafty Crab! Join us for a music-filled, unforgettable evening. Want to belt out the latest chart-topper? Want to serenade the crows with a favorite ballad? Whatever your goal, this is your night to shine!
Whether you're a seasoned performer or just want to enjoy the music and ambiance, come for an evening filled with laughter, tunes, friends--and crab! 🎤🦀
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Tickets available to Premium Members on March 24th
Tickets available to all on March 27thParking: There is plenty of parking at the lot near the restaurant.
- Natural Perfume Making WorkshopBlue Bee Cidery, Richmond , VA$55.00
Unlock the secrets of botanical fragrance blending in this hands-on Natural Perfume Making Workshop—paired with delicious cider at Blue Bee Cider! 🍏✨ Discover how people in past centuries preserved and crafted exquisite scents using botanical extracts and tinctures. Ever wondered how to capture the fragrance of a rose or the warm aroma of sandalwood? Now’s your chance!
Led by Rebecca Suerdieck, a skilled perfumer specializing in historic floral distilling methods, this workshop will guide you through the art of scent creation—from understanding the personalities of different aromas to bottling your own custom-made perfume to take home. All ingredients are all-natural, organically grown, and pharmaceutical grade.
🌸 Sip and create! Enjoy the crisp, locally crafted ciders of Blue Bee Cider as you connect with others, explore the world of natural fragrances, and craft a scent that’s uniquely yours. Whether you're a perfume enthusiast or just curious, this experience is the perfect blend of creativity, community, and great flavors! 🍎✨
Price for this event is $50 for premium members and $55 for members. Ticket includes the experience of the workshop and your own customer perfume to take home! Space is limited to 25 people.
Tickets available to Premium Members on
March 10th
Tickets available to all on March 13thYou can claim your ticket here.
Parking: there is a parking lot!
- Dinner at NeighborNeighbor, Richmond, VA
Join us for a cozy and delicious evening at Neighbor, the perfect neighborhood hangout where great food and drinks meet a warm and inviting atmosphere. Whether you're looking to connect with new friends, celebrate life’s wins, or simply enjoy a comforting meal, Neighbor offers the perfect setting.
Indulge in hot, fresh, and simple fare served with a smile, sip on a fancy cocktail, and soak in the friendly vibes that make this spot a true community gem. Expect savory bites with fun names, efficient service, and an atmosphere that feels like home—because at Neighbor, everyone belongs.
So, won’t you please be our neighbor? Come hungry, come thirsty, and come ready to enjoy a great night out! 🍽️🍹✨
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Tickets available to Premium Members on March 10th
Tickets available to all on March 13thParking: there is street parking and a small parking lot available.
- DodgeballThe Collaboratory of Virginia at UTurn, Richmond, VA
We’re teaming up with MedicDodgeballRVA to bring you an action-packed night of Medic Dodgeball! This fun and fast-paced variation of the classic game adds a strategic twist—each team has a "medic" who can revive eliminated players, keeping the game exciting and unpredictable. Whether you're a seasoned dodgeballer or just looking for a fun way to stay active, this is an event you won’t want to miss!
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
There are two steps to signing up:
1. Sign up on the Trying to Adult RVA website. This helps us know who's coming! You can do that here.
2. Pay for your spot. Cost is $5 and can be sent by Venmo or Cash App @medicdrva or you can pay cash the day of.Parking: there is a parking lot! For more information on parking, the entrance, and where the turf is located check out MedicDogeballRVA's website: https://linktr.ee/medicdodgeballrva
