What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Karaoke at Crafty CrabCrafty Crab - Richmond Southside Plaza, Richmond, VA
Get ready for an unforgettable night of music and fun at Karaoke at Crafty Crab, brought to you by DJ K-Rock and DJ DSTINY of The Sounds of K&K and hosted by the hilarious Comedian Mu Cuzzo!
Take the stage—Richmond’s biggest karaoke stage—and belt out your favorite tunes. From Top 40 hits to R&B, Hip Hop to Country, and timeless classics to today’s chart-toppers, there’s something for everyone at this high-energy karaoke event. YOU ARE THE STAR!
But the excitement doesn’t stop with karaoke. The DJs keep the party hype, the bar stays fully stocked, and your favorite events play on TVs throughout the restaurant.
Don’t miss the most electrifying karaoke night in town—grab the mic, sing your heart out, and let’s make it a night to remember!
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Tickets available to Premium Members on December 26th
Tickets available to all on December 29thParking: there is a large parking lot on site with lots of spots!
- Mini Golf at Hotel GreeneHotel Greene, Richmond , VA
Get ready for a fun and unique experience at Mini Golf at Hotel Greene! Step into a 1930’s-inspired atmosphere and enjoy a round on our 13-hole indoor miniature golf course. Whether you're a seasoned golfer or just looking for a good time, this stylish course is the perfect spot for some friendly competition and laughs.
A round of golf is just $16 per person, and you can pay when you arrive. After your round, unwind and relax in our cozy Lobby Bar, where you can enjoy sharable plates, sandwiches, snacks, and tempting desserts. With a variety of fresh cocktails, beer, and wine available, it’s the perfect way to keep the fun going.
Come for the golf, stay for the great vibes, and make it an unforgettable evening at Hotel Greene!
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Space is limited to 16 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Tickets available to Premium Members on December 26th
Tickets available to all on December 29thParking: Street parking, local lots, and garages surround the space. Currently, street parking in the area is metered Monday-Friday from 9am-6pm.
- Latin Night at AloftAloft Richmond West's w xyz bar, Richmond, VA
Get ready to heat up your Saturday night with the vibrant energy of Latin Night at Aloft Richmond! From 8:30 PM to midnight, immerse yourself in the rhythm of Salsa, Bachata, Merengue, and Kizomba, all played on a smooth, spacious dance floor under perfectly ambient lighting.
The evening kicks off with a 30-minute introductory dance lesson from 8:30 PM to 9:00 PM—perfect for beginners or anyone looking to brush up on their steps. Afterward, the floor is yours to dance the night away to irresistible Latin beats.
There’s a $5 cover charge at the door (or $5.99 with a credit or debit card). Whether you're a seasoned dancer or just starting out, this is your chance to connect, groove, and make unforgettable memories. Don’t miss the rhythm—join us for an unforgettable night of dancing and fun at Aloft Richmond!
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
We will have a separate section for socializing with other Trying to Adult RVA members. This event is free for all members (separate from the cover charge). All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is plenty of parking in the area. The garage under the hotel has free parking too!
- Dinner at Firebirds Wood Fired GrillFirebirds Wood Fired Grill, Richmond, VA
Join us for an evening of great food and even better company at Firebirds Wood Fired Grill in Short Pump! Known for their bold flavors, wood-fired specialties, and inviting atmosphere, Firebirds offers a menu that will delight every palate. From savory steaks and seafood to delectable vegetarian options, there's something for everyone to enjoy.
This event is the perfect opportunity to meet new friends, connect with old ones, and share a memorable dining experience in a relaxed and welcoming setting.
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
This event is free for all members. Space is limited to 16 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Tickets available to Premium Members on December 31st
Tickets available to all on January 3rdParking: Short Pump Town Center has tons of parking!
